Appreciate Life

Nature, Beauty, Gratitude

Change your life by watching this 10 mins video. You would feel touched and realize that each day is a gift for us.Here are only some of the gifts from other enormous gifts that we had. The beauty of nature, the smile faces of people with different background and history of life, the changing weather that we can only experience it today in which will never be the same for the next day, are all parts of gifts that we had. If we hate one people, think like we never know their histories of life. Throw away all the hatred. Let the feel of gratitude flows in your body and mind so that each day would be a good day for us!

Click here to inspire yourself --->Nature, Beauty, Gratitude

Great Motivation Saying

Tun Dr Mahathir, Im Truly Proud of You!

To all Malays in Malaysia, let us all unite and defend our country

Even we have different ideologies and political views, remember that we are still in one religion (Muslim) and that doesn't mean that we hate each other and try to destroy our own races.

Don't let other people underestimate us as the man that you can see above had fought for his races without scared. His braveness to speak in front of a very powerful race (Jewish) had clearly shown us that he was willing to do anything just for his race and country. Even the western always create bad stories about him, he still stand strongly to his opinion and never afraid of them.

So, how many Malays nowadays are brave like him?

It's a reminder for myself and also to all of us. Don't afraid of criticism.

United we stand, divided we fall

5 Tips To Have A Great Conversation

5 things you should ensure when having a conversation are:

1. Listen - When people talk, shut your mouth up and listen to them. If both parties are talking, who gonna listen then? I seriously hate when a person who I'm talking with, talk at the same time even though he or she knows that I am talking at that moment. Please show some respect when having conversation and listen!
2. Respond - When people are talking to you, please give response indicating you are listening to them. It shows your appreciation and your interest towards what they are talking about. Along the conversation, you don't have to stay plain quiet. At least say words that encourage them to continue their conversation such as "hmm okay", "then", "go on" and etc.
3. Comments - When people are done with their talks, don't directly continue to your topic yet. Give them some thoughts or comments because that's what they hope to hear from you. People won't tell you their problems accept they hope to hear some good comments from you. Comments, that's what we hope to hear first!
4. Respect - People communicate to express what they feel to other people. You don't have to argue with them about what they feel. Telling your opinion would be good, but please do it in the right way! For instance, I used to say that I think the food in that restaurant was kinda cheap. But Z said, he thinks the food was not cheap and he was explaining to me why he said that, complete with all the examples and fact. OMG, that's just so annoying! I didn't expect you to explain all that to me. Sorry I just not interested to hear all that!
5. Voice qualities - Two people say to you, " What a great idea." Although they are saying the same words, you can tell that one person is being enthusiastic and other disinterested just by recognizing their voice tones. So watch out your intonation when speaking to people!