Life is interesting. Sometimes you might think that you couldn't achieve something that you want and it was almost impossible. But who knows better than God does. One day you feel so sad, but happiness awaiting you the next day. One day you lose hope, the next day you gain back your strength and be more confident in life. One day you lose someone that you truly love, but the next day you meet a person that is much better than the previous one. To start the change, we need to go through the first step. Everybody is afraid of taking the first step because we are not daring to try as we afraid of the unexpected outcome. But can we know the outcome if we don't try at all? The answer is totally a big NO! Instead, we might lose the chances if the outcome is satisfying. But yeah we might escape too if the outcome is disappointing. But do we want to waste a good chance just because of our lack of confidence and being afraid to try? Still we do not know the final outcome unless we try. So it worth trying to achieve what we want in life, also to pursue a better way of life!
4 comments:
salam...reen,
do have to tips how to build confidence?
I don't have any problems of contents or languages...but, the problem is I'll lost all my points while I'm standing in front of crowd..do you have simple and efficient tips for this problem?---based on your experience maybe
p/s: sorry make your post comment like information counter..hehe
~UKHUWAH FILLAH ABADAN ABADA~
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salam..hye mia,
it's okay..that's what blog is used for..me myself sometimes having problems regarding confidence. ya i got what u meant. especially during presentation right? before the presentation, usually i feel so nervous to stand in front of the crowd. I think it's quite normal and a lot of people will feel the same thing actually. But at the moment u really stand in front of them, u just realize that there's no way u can escape. Whether we want it or not, we have to speak and do the presentation. Some people say that by looking at ur audience will make you feel more nervous. But to me by looking at my audience and seeing that they are really listening to me, will make me feel more confident. You should imagine that it's just like an honor for u to be given the opportunity to talk in front of the crowd and so you should give ur best on that presentation. Besides, of course you don't want the people to think that u are nervous and really scared. Thus, you should react cool..and don't show them ur nervousness. Time by time, as you start talking, you will feel much more confident. Plus, try to focus on ur main points and don't focus on the audience much as it will make u feel nervous. You just need to think that your aim is to make the audience understand ur main points. It will make u feel much better if u think that way.
Thats the tip that i can share with u by my own experience and knowledge that i got from my communication studies last term. Hope it helps!=D
Reen!! THANKS A LOT MY DEAR FRIEND,
Your tip really helps me. Oppss..sorry, forgot to say salam c0z I'm too excited: Assalamu'alaikum ^_^
You know what, I try to apply your tip in my important presentation.
As a result, my lecturer impress on my presentation and I got A++. I owe you girl ^_*
Thank you so much. It works me blew away my nervous. It's true, when look at the audience like an honor to talk in front of them.
Thanks again
~UKHUWAH FILLAH ABADAN ABADA~
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salam mia..
Great to hear that the tips worked on you! Congratulations for ur impressive grade..wow its A++! thats a very very good grade girl;) Nah i was just giving the tips and you yourself was the one who did it..Congratezz again! Ur most welcome and I feel so glad that i could help you=)
Cheers =D
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