The Truth is Unveiled!
"Love cannot be forced, love cannot be coaxed and teased. It comes out of heaven, unasked and unsought."
— Pearl S. Buck
Alright now the true story comes! Love can't be forced. It comes by itself even during an unexpected time. You never ask for it to come. As in my earlier post entitled "You're thief of my heart" , actually my heart was not fully stolen. Maybe just a half of it. I realized I couldn't accept him more than friend. Since we've been friends since a long time, I looked him more as my best friend rather than a boyfriend. I felt that our relationship was more cheerful when we were friends. It was kinda hard to decide in this situation. Confessing the truth to him might leave him hurtful and on the other hand, kept pretending in the relationship, made me felt guilty and that was not fair to him either. Different views and lifestyles, made me felt stronger that we couldn't get along further. After several days, I decided to face this situation and let him knew the truth as that seemed the best for him and me. Telling him my decision did upset him so much. I admitted he treated me very nice, cheered me up when I was upset. I did appreciate that so much but I just a normal human being who couldn't get away from making mistakes in life. Life was indeed too short to regret. It happened and I couldn't lie to my own feeling forever. Alhamdulillah he did accept that decision finally after several days and we became friends as before again. Maybe we are destined to be best friend. Thank you for being my best friend forever! I do appreciate that so much. Sorry as I couldn't give you the happiness that you wish for and I hope you will find someone who can give you much better than I could...
2 comments:
salam..
owh..that's the true story :)
alhamdulillah..both of you still can be best friend ;)
Just a piece advice from me:
Actually, it's hard to maintain your friendship especially when boy n girl be best friend... like me: We're best friend since childhood, but, when he has a girlfriend we've to broke our friendship coz that girl doesn't like it. We end up our friendship juz like that. I miss him, but what can I do..juz pray the best for him..hemm..oppsss...sorry, t'lebih sudah =D
Hope it is not happen to you.^_^.
appreciate your friendship, bukan senang nak cari org yg blh kt share hapiness & sadness..tapi, mmg senang nak cari kwn smasa kt gembira je :)
Sayangi lah friendship anda..hehehe..
Salam..
Yeah that's what i wanna tell you before. I understand your situation. Indeed, he was the one who told me before about the hardness to maintain the friendship. But it was opposite. He afraid he would lost me as friend once I have a new relationship in the future. But I reminded him that I would always be his friend no matter what happened.
Yes you're absolutely right Mira! Kawan masa senang mmg rmi, but ble susah tu yg susah nk dpt the true friends. I feel sorry for your last friendship.But don't be sad okay..InsyaAllah ada hikmah di sebalik semua tu..who knows you may find a new friend who is much better than him..we never know that kan..I pray for you to be happy always :)
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